friends

Merriam-Webster dictionary defines friends as "one attached to another by affection or esteem" or a " a favored companion". Friends are an interesting group of people. One must enjoy their company enough to hang out on a regular basis. However, when friends are of opposite genders, things can become extremely complicated.

If friends of opposite gender become too attached, it can start to confuse the vibe of your group. People start feeling awkward and friends can feel left out. When dealing with this type of situation, one must make sure they completely know what they are doing. If the relationship turns up sour, then the friendship may end between those two and may possibly break up the group.

I myself got into a similar situation. I did not realize she had interest in me, but i could see some small hints. Was it simply me being oblivious or did I choose to ignore them due to my crush on another girl(who I wanted to make sure I let the situation run its course).

I decided the best course was to hold off until I was absolutely certain it would work out before taking action. I enjoyed being friends with her and I didn't want that to go sour. Were it not for the other girl, I would probably at least try it out, but until things are free, it would be better for the both of us to wait.

Friends can be complicated. Make sure you know what you are doing.

Can you hear me? Stop, look, listen to my voice,It was never my choice to feel all aloneThis is my home Back up , you don't know if you've never been here, You've never been to the place inside, I face my fears It takes everything I am (Move by A Thousand Foot Krutch)