Annoyance is defined as " a source of vexation or irritation". When two people don't hang out with each other for a long time, those two people may experience a change in wants. Simply put, with more time away, the more different these two people may become. Before you shout out loud, "ANDREW YOU'RE STUPID!", let me just explain, this may only happen some of the time, I just happened to notice it recently.
I used to be an active member of the local boy scout troop. When one participates in an activity, they usually make a friend or two, to pass the time by. You see, I was actually pretty good friends with this person. We'd hang out during meetings and have a good time just fooling around.
Time passes. Not too much though. Maybe a month or two. Now we no longer share a common activity, but we occassionally talk on facebook. Sadly, I seem to be slightly annoyed whenever we talk. It's not like he's an annoying person, I just don't really feel like listening to what he has to say. Am I a bad person? No. I feel just that even though we can still talk about scouts, its just a subject that doesn't interest me anymore.
The question is, is there any way one can fix this? Yes. I could find a common interest. I could try and gain interest. It's up to the person whether or not they will.
But why should you believe me?
"These words don't always come out right But I feel that were wasting time Are we wasting our time" Safe to Say by Vanna
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